You are generally giving much more attention to the aspects of your life that you are living right now. Whatever you are living is carrying more vibrational weight, so to speak, than what you are desiring or imagining.
In other words, if you have a desire to be slender even though you are considerably overweight at the moment, the aspects of your now experience are probably outweighing the vibrations of your visualizations.
Often people will say, “I’m not happy here. I wish I was over there.” But when asked what it is about over there that they desire, usually they will just explain to you what is wrong with being over here. Even though they use words such as, “I want to be over there,” or “I want what is over there,” their vibration is much more about over here where they now stand than about where they want to be.
There is no value in using happy sounding words if you do not feel happy. The Law of Attraction is not responding to your words, but instead is responding to the vibrations that are radiating from you. It is quite possible for you to use all the right-sounding words at the same time that you are in a state of powerful resistance to your own Well-Being, the words you use are not important—how you feel is what matters.
The See it and Believe it Process is most helpful in making sure that you are radiating a vibration that will serve you, for this is a process that will help you realize what you are actually attracting. By using your imagination to pretend that your desire has already come about and that you are now living the details of that desire. As you focus upon what it feels like to be living your desire, you cannot, at the same time, be feeling the absence of your desire, so with practice, you can tip the scale, so to speak, so that even though your desire has not yet actually manifested, you are offering a vibration as if it has—and then it must.
Again, the Universe does not know if you are offering your vibration because you are living what you are living, or because you are imagining that you are living it. In either case, it answers the vibration—and the manifestation must follow.
For example, say that you go to your mailbox and you find the second notice of another unpaid bill, and as you open the envelope, you feel very uncomfortable because, right now, you do not know how you are going to pay it. This bill is already overdue, and there are several other overdue bills, so you feel overwhelmed and discouraged. “I want more money,” you say. “I want a lot more money,” you say, with even more emphasis. But you are offering empty, hollow words—that have no impact on your point of attraction whatsoever—because your words are not your point of attraction. Your point of attraction is your practiced vibrational offering, and the way you feel is the real indicator of what your point of attraction is. Right now you are pulsing with emotions that clearly match your state of not having enough money.
Your goal, in this process, is to create images that cause you to offer a vibration that allows money. Your goal is to create images that feel good to you. Your goal is to find the feeling-place of what it would be like to have enough money, rather than finding the feeling-place of what it is like to not have enough money.
Now, you could remember a time when you had more money, or even a time when, even though you did not necessarily have more money, at least you were not feeling the stress of too many bills. And when you find that memory, try to remember as many details as possible in order to try to feel it even more. You could pretend that you have more money than you have any sensible use for; pretend that you have so much money you do not know where to keep it all, and imagine you have tons of it in the pantry and under the bed. See yourself going to the bank with buckets of change that you are converting to dollar bills. See yourself taking $5, $10, and $20 bills and having them converted to $100 bills, just for sake of more efficient storage.
You could pretend that you have a credit card with an unlimited balance that is easily paid, a sort of magic card that you use several times every day because it is very efficient, and then, once a month, you casually write a check that pays for all of the charges you have incurred. Pretend that the ratio of your money in the bank to this month’s credit card balance is so great that paying the bill is inconsequential to your experience.
The more often you play this See it and Believe it Process, the better you will be at playing it, and the more fun it will become. When you pretend, or selectively remember, you activate new vibrations— and your point of attraction shifts. And when your point of attraction shifts, your life will improve regarding every subject for which you have found a new feeling-place.